We have been working hard at dance class this year, and both Elliott and I have really made some strides in the fall. At our school, technique is the primary focus in the fall. In the spring, technique is still emphasized, but we choreograph and learn the pieces for the spring recital. I love learning new dances and preparing them for performances. I'm definitely nervous to perform again, since it's been almost 4 years since I last danced on a stage, and 11 years since my last recital! I'm just hoping I get the right shoes on my feet and remember the dances.
Elliott has developed a lot as a person through dance. He's learning to follow instructions and take direction from someone who isn't Mommy, Daddy, or a family member. His teacher is wonderful and his classmates are just the cutest. Because of the class size, and because I'm already there at the school, I've become something of a permanent assistant in his class. He puts on his own shoes in class, which always makes me proud. He wouldn't put on his tap shoes for the first few months, but one day, he just asked his teacher if he could wear them. He loves making noise with his feet (what kid wouldn't!?). He is also working on his musicality and memory skills. He works hard and even if he doesn't stick with this for long, the lessons he has learned will help him in any sport or hobby he takes up. We are very proud.
I'm making different strides. In November, I was given a class to be the primary teacher of, which means I pick their costumes, choreograph their dances, and direct class each week. My class is a "level 2" class, which is pre-Company, but they are about 8 to 11 years old. For some reason, most of our our level 3 and level 2 dancers are the same age. Many of them also just "moved up," so we are still working on a lot of technique, and I will continue to do that throughout the recital preparations. It's been great to have my own class again. In my other classes, I find that my turns are improving. I'm definitely stronger than I was in high school. Somehow, being about 50 pounds heavier than I was then is helping. Leaps are a struggle, partly because I get shin splints easily. Since all but one of the classes that I take are almost all adults, my teachers are aware of everyones limitations and are understanding. The skill I'm most behind on is an "illusion," which looks like a cartwheel, but one leg never leaves the ground. I have the ability, but I'm sort of scared of them. I think its the action of swinging my head down to my feet. I'm hoping that my ability to learn and remember the recital dances hasn't deteriorated. I am in 9 pieces, choreographing three others, and assisting with 4 others. That's a lot to keep track of!
I'm curious what my readers want to know about dance! Questions about sending little ones for the first time (especially boys) or about returning after years away or really anything!
- M.
Elliott is getting so big!
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Monday, January 5, 2015
Saturday, October 11, 2014
Dance Mom.
When I found out that Elliott was going to be, well -- an Elliott, I had a moment of feeling like I might miss out on certain things I had hoped to pass on to my children, especially dance.
I started dancing at 7 at a pre-professional studio. It gave me an excellent foundation for technique, but we didn't like a lot about it. The attitude of the director was sort of last last straw, and when I was 9, we switched to Wevodau Dance Center, where I stayed until I graduated high school. I loved it, especially competitions and recitals. I made great friends and learned a lot. The main reason I got cast in a lot of early musicals was because I could dance. I came back for summer dance classes, but I didn't have the opportunity to return until this year. Wevodau's welcomes its alumni back with open arms, while most schools don't have any opportunities for adult dancers. I'm now an assistant teacher and I take a few hours of class a week.
I also decided to see if Elliott would like dance. He takes a class just for three year olds, with some ballet, tap, acro, and jazz. It's very cute. He likes his tap shoes, but he won't wear them in class (I think he's afraid of falling down). He keeps his shoes in my drawer (all the teachers get drawers in the break room so we don't have to schlep our shoes every day), and he likes getting a pretzel afterwards. However, it took until just this past week to have a class with no tears. If he's not with me, he is almost always with a grandparent or Jason. So, this was a new situation. The first week he cried at the end because he didn't want to go home, but then during weeks two and three, he cried during class. Last week, I subbed in his class, so he was less tearful, but still cried a little. I was beginning to think this wasn't for him.
This week, we had a busy morning and he didn't get a nap. I even considered not taking him, because it all seemed like a recipe for disaster. We arrived at the studio, he got his socks on with no hesitation, and we waited outside the room. I dropped him off, gave him a kiss, and he ran to his place in the front of the classroom. No fuss, no muss. At pick-up, I got a glowing report from his teachers about how enthusiastic he was. Since Wednesday, he has been showing off all his dance moves, not just the acro stuff. I'm hoping it sticks because it makes him happy right now. It's also fun that we have an activity we do sort of together. In June (if we both make it), we'll perform in the recital. Our studio has a special recital just for the pre-school kids, so it's short, sweet, and before afternoon naps. I'll be in all three shows that day, but I'll have to find a way to watch E from the sidelines. Apparently, the number of dances I'm in puts me in the on-stage dressing room, so that shouldn't be a problem.
And if he finds that dance isn't for him? Great! There are so many activities for him to do out there. I want to give him the opportunity to try stuff out, and dance works for us right now.
- M.
I started dancing at 7 at a pre-professional studio. It gave me an excellent foundation for technique, but we didn't like a lot about it. The attitude of the director was sort of last last straw, and when I was 9, we switched to Wevodau Dance Center, where I stayed until I graduated high school. I loved it, especially competitions and recitals. I made great friends and learned a lot. The main reason I got cast in a lot of early musicals was because I could dance. I came back for summer dance classes, but I didn't have the opportunity to return until this year. Wevodau's welcomes its alumni back with open arms, while most schools don't have any opportunities for adult dancers. I'm now an assistant teacher and I take a few hours of class a week.
I also decided to see if Elliott would like dance. He takes a class just for three year olds, with some ballet, tap, acro, and jazz. It's very cute. He likes his tap shoes, but he won't wear them in class (I think he's afraid of falling down). He keeps his shoes in my drawer (all the teachers get drawers in the break room so we don't have to schlep our shoes every day), and he likes getting a pretzel afterwards. However, it took until just this past week to have a class with no tears. If he's not with me, he is almost always with a grandparent or Jason. So, this was a new situation. The first week he cried at the end because he didn't want to go home, but then during weeks two and three, he cried during class. Last week, I subbed in his class, so he was less tearful, but still cried a little. I was beginning to think this wasn't for him.
This week, we had a busy morning and he didn't get a nap. I even considered not taking him, because it all seemed like a recipe for disaster. We arrived at the studio, he got his socks on with no hesitation, and we waited outside the room. I dropped him off, gave him a kiss, and he ran to his place in the front of the classroom. No fuss, no muss. At pick-up, I got a glowing report from his teachers about how enthusiastic he was. Since Wednesday, he has been showing off all his dance moves, not just the acro stuff. I'm hoping it sticks because it makes him happy right now. It's also fun that we have an activity we do sort of together. In June (if we both make it), we'll perform in the recital. Our studio has a special recital just for the pre-school kids, so it's short, sweet, and before afternoon naps. I'll be in all three shows that day, but I'll have to find a way to watch E from the sidelines. Apparently, the number of dances I'm in puts me in the on-stage dressing room, so that shouldn't be a problem.
And if he finds that dance isn't for him? Great! There are so many activities for him to do out there. I want to give him the opportunity to try stuff out, and dance works for us right now.
- M.
Monday, March 31, 2014
Thawing Out.
It's been a busy and fulfilling few weeks since I last posted. This past weekend, the conference that I have been planning finally happened, and it went very well. It was held at La Salle University, which is why I was chosen to help plan, and the university really went out of its way to impress the attendees, or at least my friends. We had a lovely reception in the campus art museum, which some of my art history friends really enjoyed. Everyones presentations went off without a hitch, and we all had a great time. I also won an award for the best graduate student paper. Winning at La Salle was really special, and I'm flattered by the recognition.
Planning the conference, plus preparing my own presentation, and assisting with some other research at school really took it out of me. When I got home on Saturday, I took a three hour nap. I could barely stay awake the rest of the day. On Sunday, my parents offered to host us for dinner and babysit so Jason and I could see The Grand Budapest Hotel. I'm a huge Wes Anderson fan, and I've been looking forward to this movie. It was perfect timing. The snow and sleet here really bummed us out, but we had a chicken and mashed potato dinner with strawberry shortcake for a touch of summer.
Today, I finally got back to 40 Days, 40 Bags. I did clean out the cars and did a little organizing here and there in the last few weeks. In cleaning out the closet, our bedroom, the bathroom, and the cars, we threw out at least 8 bags. I have another pile to take to Goodwill, but I'm waiting to do that in a larger trip. Today I tackled the pantry. I'm almost always embarrassed by the food waste in our house, and the pantry reminded me of it. I got rid of one trash bag, and I took another bag of candy and little treats to school for our sadly empty snack bucket. I have to grocery shop today, but the list is pretty short, and mainly just staples that we ran out of in the last week.
On Wednesday, I think I'm going to start on the attic. I don't know how much we'll throw out, but it needs to be organized. We also have a lot of blank walls, and the photos upstairs will definitely help eliminate those. Finally, the books are all kinds of out of place. I need a better solution for E's books in the family room, and I need to gift some to friends at school.
We started potty training over spring break, and while we had a few initial set backs, we are now staying dry during the day with some consistency. We haven't tackled night training yet, since sleep is the highest priority in our house for the next month or so.
I hope spring is finally arriving to where ever you are. It's definitely doing wonders for my mood.
- M.
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| Me and Dr. Bronner, one of my profs at PSH, as well as the namesake of the award. |
Today, I finally got back to 40 Days, 40 Bags. I did clean out the cars and did a little organizing here and there in the last few weeks. In cleaning out the closet, our bedroom, the bathroom, and the cars, we threw out at least 8 bags. I have another pile to take to Goodwill, but I'm waiting to do that in a larger trip. Today I tackled the pantry. I'm almost always embarrassed by the food waste in our house, and the pantry reminded me of it. I got rid of one trash bag, and I took another bag of candy and little treats to school for our sadly empty snack bucket. I have to grocery shop today, but the list is pretty short, and mainly just staples that we ran out of in the last week.
On Wednesday, I think I'm going to start on the attic. I don't know how much we'll throw out, but it needs to be organized. We also have a lot of blank walls, and the photos upstairs will definitely help eliminate those. Finally, the books are all kinds of out of place. I need a better solution for E's books in the family room, and I need to gift some to friends at school.
We started potty training over spring break, and while we had a few initial set backs, we are now staying dry during the day with some consistency. We haven't tackled night training yet, since sleep is the highest priority in our house for the next month or so.
I hope spring is finally arriving to where ever you are. It's definitely doing wonders for my mood.
- M.
Tuesday, February 4, 2014
Snowman Snow.
I'm the worst sometimes.
I don't like the cold, and so it does not cross my mind on a snow day to take my kid outside, usually until its too late. If he asked, I'd go out. He doesn't ask.
Today my mom (who bought E both his snow coat and snow overalls) asked if he had been out yet.
Yet? I gotta take this kid outside.
It was really fun, and I don't know why I'm so opposed to getting outside. I just don't think about it until the weather gets nice.
We shoveled (for the third time), watched the plow, made snow angels, and built a snow person. We went inside only when his gloves were soaking wet. We weren't ready, but that was a sign that the time had come. Also, nap time was being seriously postponed.
I enjoy snow days, especially if Jason can stay home too, but this winter has made them less novel, and therefore, far more annoying. We are supposed to get TWO more storms before next week. Ugh. I'll just remember the fun of this snow day; buy bread, milk, and eggs; and make sure the snow pants are dry and ready for our next adventure outside.
- M.
I don't like the cold, and so it does not cross my mind on a snow day to take my kid outside, usually until its too late. If he asked, I'd go out. He doesn't ask.
Today my mom (who bought E both his snow coat and snow overalls) asked if he had been out yet.
Yet? I gotta take this kid outside.
It was really fun, and I don't know why I'm so opposed to getting outside. I just don't think about it until the weather gets nice.
We shoveled (for the third time), watched the plow, made snow angels, and built a snow person. We went inside only when his gloves were soaking wet. We weren't ready, but that was a sign that the time had come. Also, nap time was being seriously postponed.
I enjoy snow days, especially if Jason can stay home too, but this winter has made them less novel, and therefore, far more annoying. We are supposed to get TWO more storms before next week. Ugh. I'll just remember the fun of this snow day; buy bread, milk, and eggs; and make sure the snow pants are dry and ready for our next adventure outside.
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| E standing with "Silly Snowman" |
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| He enjoyed throwing the snow up in the air. |
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
Lean and Mean in 2014.
Our word of the year: Simple. Streamlining things always makes me happy, so that should help make the year a success.
Goals for 2014:
1. Continue working on a healthier lifestyle: Despite some health problems (eyes!), I have been exercising more and being more conscious of what goes in my body. That said, I need to double my efforts and see some results. I want to be back in shape before I even consider having a second child (which won't happen until at least 2016, so I have some time to enjoy being in shape). I already put together a school schedule that allows me to go to the gym twice a week, and I got a ballet fitness video for Christmas! I started taking dance in the summer, and I was able to start teaching dance in September. This equals out to about 12 hours of dance a week. I've slimmed down, and I've continued putting good things in my body to make it work well!
2. Complete 40 Days, 40 Bags challenge: I did a half-hearted version of this, but February and March were very challenging months. The first thing to go was the 40 Days challenge, which takes place over Lent. It's a way to purge and cleanse your life before Easter. It's my annual Lenten challenge, rather than trying to give up something. I'll post more about this closer to Lent.
3. Potty train Elliott: I was hoping to do this over Christmas, but he is simply not ready. I'm hoping to start over Spring Break. He'll be 3 in July, but I know boys can be more challenging to train than girls. This happened...sort of. It didn't take long to potty train him with pee. We really went crazy with small rewards (M&M for each successful trip) and even our parents helped by getting him some rewards. However, we are still not night trained or able to go #2. So, the work continues.
4. Budget better and start saving for a Disney trip: I could budget better, simply put. I want to find a better way to make our food budget stretch further too. Since I'm not working full time (yet), I will use pocket change to save for our Disney trip, which we are hoping to take in two years. Once I get a better job, I will also (finally) start a future fund for E (money for college, trade school, what-have-you). Nope. Didn't happen. See #5.
5. Get a job that is fulfilling and helps pay the bills: My assistantship ends in May, so I need to get a job that begins in June. I need some specific work experience, but with my education, I'm hoping to double our household income. This will make 4 easier too! Tried as I might, I did not find a full time job after May. It has been a frustrating experience, which might also account for my lack of posts. I know 2015 has to be better on this front.
6. Organize the house more effectively: We organized some things this year that made life oddly easier. I would like to extend that throughout the house. I hate looking high and low for things that should just have a spot. Once I've purged in step 2, I want to make it easier to find the things we keep (the things that matter). Still working on this, but we made strides.
7.Complete a rough draft of at least four dissertation chapters: I want to graduate in 2016, so I need to stay on track with writing. I have the beginnings of a few chapters, so I should continue making progress through the year. Yes! I completed a final draft of my chapter on crosswords and rough drafts of my Disney chapters (2), the Olympics, and my introduction.
8. Finish coursework and maintain GPA: I should finish coursework in May, and I'm already registered, so this should be the easiest goal on the list. Yay! I maintained my 4.0, finished coursework on time, and I passed my comps in October with flying colors. This is what I am most proud of this year.
It's an attitude adjustment. My other mantra should be "live intentionally." I want to pay better attention to what goes in my body (thanks MyFitnessPal!), where my money goes (mint.com), and what happens to my time. I need to think long-term, worry about myself and my family, and less about what others think. Elliott will probably start pre-school, I'll probably start a new job. It's going to be a big year!
- M.
Goals for 2014:
2. Complete 40 Days, 40 Bags challenge: I did a half-hearted version of this, but February and March were very challenging months. The first thing to go was the 40 Days challenge, which takes place over Lent. It's a way to purge and cleanse your life before Easter. It's my annual Lenten challenge, rather than trying to give up something. I'll post more about this closer to Lent.
4. Budget better and start saving for a Disney trip: I could budget better, simply put. I want to find a better way to make our food budget stretch further too. Since I'm not working full time (yet), I will use pocket change to save for our Disney trip, which we are hoping to take in two years. Once I get a better job, I will also (finally) start a future fund for E (money for college, trade school, what-have-you). Nope. Didn't happen. See #5.
5. Get a job that is fulfilling and helps pay the bills: My assistantship ends in May, so I need to get a job that begins in June. I need some specific work experience, but with my education, I'm hoping to double our household income. This will make 4 easier too! Tried as I might, I did not find a full time job after May. It has been a frustrating experience, which might also account for my lack of posts. I know 2015 has to be better on this front.
6. Organize the house more effectively: We organized some things this year that made life oddly easier. I would like to extend that throughout the house. I hate looking high and low for things that should just have a spot. Once I've purged in step 2, I want to make it easier to find the things we keep (the things that matter). Still working on this, but we made strides.
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It's an attitude adjustment. My other mantra should be "live intentionally." I want to pay better attention to what goes in my body (thanks MyFitnessPal!), where my money goes (mint.com), and what happens to my time. I need to think long-term, worry about myself and my family, and less about what others think. Elliott will probably start pre-school, I'll probably start a new job. It's going to be a big year!
- M.
Monday, July 15, 2013
Two.
Today, Elliott Zachary is two!
We had a party for him on Saturday with family and some friends. It was Pixar themed, and he had an Up themed cake.
I find it difficult to believe that the little guy playing with his new Woody and Buzz dolls is two. Sometimes, he seems older. We joke that he's been two for a while. I can't believe that two years ago, we were sitting with him in the ICN, learning to be parents to a kid on the outside.
We are such lucky people.
- M. & J.
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| Chatting on the phone. |
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| Mike Wazowski grape platter |
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I find it difficult to believe that the little guy playing with his new Woody and Buzz dolls is two. Sometimes, he seems older. We joke that he's been two for a while. I can't believe that two years ago, we were sitting with him in the ICN, learning to be parents to a kid on the outside.
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| Us as a new family. |
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| Wooo! |
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| E on his first birthday |
We are such lucky people.
- M. & J.
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Sunny Days!
Oh my goodness, we have been surprised with a warm and sunny weekend!
Here in the mid-Atlantic or Northeast region of the country, depending on how you classify PA, we enjoy stereotypical seasons. Winter is snowy, flowers bloom in the spring, summer is HOT, and fall is colorful with changing leaves.
Today and yesterday, it was 50 degrees out. What?! Nice weather, for whatever reason, inspires me to clean. I'm already preparing for spring cleaning. I love it. So, I did a little needed cleaning this weekend, but the best part was having the windows open. Yesterday it was the upstairs windows, and today it's the downstairs.
- M.
Here in the mid-Atlantic or Northeast region of the country, depending on how you classify PA, we enjoy stereotypical seasons. Winter is snowy, flowers bloom in the spring, summer is HOT, and fall is colorful with changing leaves.
Today and yesterday, it was 50 degrees out. What?! Nice weather, for whatever reason, inspires me to clean. I'm already preparing for spring cleaning. I love it. So, I did a little needed cleaning this weekend, but the best part was having the windows open. Yesterday it was the upstairs windows, and today it's the downstairs.
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| Is it weird that the bathroom is my favorite room, decoration wise? |
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| Barney enjoying the odd opened window. |
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| Our family room window. It's a small seat. |
- M.
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
So Fresh and So Clean Clean
I love beginnings. I have a passion for starting projects I don't always finish. I love the first day of the semester, the first day of a season, the first day of the year. It's permission on a cyclical basis from the universe to begin again. Yes, one can re-start anytime, but I usually need a breath of a break to reset and re-charge.
I spent the last hour or so getting my new planner ready (yay!), prepping for my class, and creating some resolutions and goals for the new year.
2013 Resolutions and Goals:
1. Know my limits: I tend to bite off far more than I can chew, as it were. My research always needs more focus, my craft projects are quite ambitious, and I get frustrated when I realize it. 2013 will be the year of doing great things, but I will know what I should and can take on. If you don't understand what I mean, look at my 2012 resolutions (oh boy).
2. Get back into "fighting form": I said this last year too, and I did lose a couple of pounds. That said, I want to be healthy, which I am not. I want to include cleaner eating, more water, and more exercise into my life. I think a healthy body will beget a healthy mind and happy life. I will do my best to embody that this year.
3. Finish What I Start: Along with #1, I will begin ambitious projects, or even small projects, and never finish them. I have a drawer or two filled with unfinished crochet projects. My Goodreads account has a bookshelf called "on-hold." The best of my intentions are often shouted down by my lazier demons. I hope to have 2013 end with only new projects that did not exist in 2012.
4. Less internet, more real life: I'm constantly tempted by the internet. I'm "online" far more than my blog updates would suggest. I want to be more deliberate with my internet use (get on with a purpose, and get back off), while also engaging far more in real life. Less looking at Pinterest and more living it. Little adventures will be had.
5. Get organized and stay organized: My readers know I love to organize. Do I stay organized? No. I always feel better when things are organized, so it seems prudent to follow through.
6. Be more interactive with Elliott: I spend a lot of time just one-on-one with E. However, aside from certain activities, I feel like I could have more of a dialogue with him during his activities. We could go to the park more. Take more walks (hello, #2). I may even sign him up for a local kids gym so he can get some real energy out during the winter.
7. Keep as tidy a home as possible: I actually enjoy cleaning, but I place it low on my list of priorities. This break proved to me that I can get more done than I think, even with Elliott under foot. Certain chores will still go un-done, but I want to keep on top of a few basic tasks.
8. Be smarter with money: I don't splurge or buy a lot of clothing or buy almost anything full price. However, I spend a little here, a little there, and it adds up! A lot of my money goes to food at school (which is really overpriced), so by packing lunches and dinners at home (for #2), I'll save money. I want to clip more coupons and shop smarter. I already started doing this with my school books. I price compared across a few different platforms, and I'm going to save probably $200. ***Update: I ended up saving between 400 and 500 dollars by comparing prices. Someone should have a website that is just book prices compared.***
8 resolutions might seem ambitious, but these are actually just general mindset adjustments that I've needed to make for a while. I have realistic plans to achieve each one, and many of them will help with others. I've read and heard that to make resolutions stick, you have to make yourself accountable, and that's what I'm doing here.
I'll add and update throughout the year, but you can find the short list on the shortcut bar above.
- M.
I spent the last hour or so getting my new planner ready (yay!), prepping for my class, and creating some resolutions and goals for the new year.
2013 Resolutions and Goals:
1. Know my limits: I tend to bite off far more than I can chew, as it were. My research always needs more focus, my craft projects are quite ambitious, and I get frustrated when I realize it. 2013 will be the year of doing great things, but I will know what I should and can take on. If you don't understand what I mean, look at my 2012 resolutions (oh boy).
2. Get back into "fighting form": I said this last year too, and I did lose a couple of pounds. That said, I want to be healthy, which I am not. I want to include cleaner eating, more water, and more exercise into my life. I think a healthy body will beget a healthy mind and happy life. I will do my best to embody that this year.
3. Finish What I Start: Along with #1, I will begin ambitious projects, or even small projects, and never finish them. I have a drawer or two filled with unfinished crochet projects. My Goodreads account has a bookshelf called "on-hold." The best of my intentions are often shouted down by my lazier demons. I hope to have 2013 end with only new projects that did not exist in 2012.
4. Less internet, more real life: I'm constantly tempted by the internet. I'm "online" far more than my blog updates would suggest. I want to be more deliberate with my internet use (get on with a purpose, and get back off), while also engaging far more in real life. Less looking at Pinterest and more living it. Little adventures will be had.
5. Get organized and stay organized: My readers know I love to organize. Do I stay organized? No. I always feel better when things are organized, so it seems prudent to follow through.
6. Be more interactive with Elliott: I spend a lot of time just one-on-one with E. However, aside from certain activities, I feel like I could have more of a dialogue with him during his activities. We could go to the park more. Take more walks (hello, #2). I may even sign him up for a local kids gym so he can get some real energy out during the winter.
7. Keep as tidy a home as possible: I actually enjoy cleaning, but I place it low on my list of priorities. This break proved to me that I can get more done than I think, even with Elliott under foot. Certain chores will still go un-done, but I want to keep on top of a few basic tasks.
8. Be smarter with money: I don't splurge or buy a lot of clothing or buy almost anything full price. However, I spend a little here, a little there, and it adds up! A lot of my money goes to food at school (which is really overpriced), so by packing lunches and dinners at home (for #2), I'll save money. I want to clip more coupons and shop smarter. I already started doing this with my school books. I price compared across a few different platforms, and I'm going to save probably $200. ***Update: I ended up saving between 400 and 500 dollars by comparing prices. Someone should have a website that is just book prices compared.***
8 resolutions might seem ambitious, but these are actually just general mindset adjustments that I've needed to make for a while. I have realistic plans to achieve each one, and many of them will help with others. I've read and heard that to make resolutions stick, you have to make yourself accountable, and that's what I'm doing here.
I'll add and update throughout the year, but you can find the short list on the shortcut bar above.
- M.
Sunday, August 19, 2012
Back to School!
Tomorrow is my first day of being a Ph.D. student. We have orientation for teaching all week, then classes (both my students' and my own) start up on the 27th. I spent the weekend relaxing and mentally preparing myself for what is about to happen. We spent Saturday in Philly (sans Elliott; he spent a night at Chez Nana and Grandpa's for a relaxing night of being spoiled). It was like being a college student again, but just the fun stuff. Deep conversations, laughing a lot, playing drinking games, and being around some of my favorite people in the world. We came home late (or early?) last night because we're old and wanted our own bed.
This morning (a mere 4 1/2 hours after going to bed), I got up and went with my parents to Mt. Gretna's annual Art Show. It was my mom's birthday present from me and my sister. Mt. Gretna, for those who are unaware, is a lake community tucked back in the woods of a Chautauqua resort. The people who live there have these amazing little cottages and homes that are full of character. My mom always says she wants to live there, and I couldn't disagree with her. The Art Show (this was its 38th year) is a juried arts and craft fair with music, food, and nature all around. This isn't a local craft fair; the vendors have to submit pieces and are chosen to have booths. A more traditional arts and craft fair is across the street. We had a lovely day shopping, eating ice cream, and trying not to be stung by bees who wanted our ice cream. If you have never been, it's amazing. I'll try to give a heads up on here when the 2013 show is.
Now, I'm at home, Elliott's in bed, and I'm putting the final touches on my office before I pack my school bag. Most things are put away, but there are always the odds and ends, and I want to be able to sit at my desk tomorrow evening and get my work done. I'll pick out an outfit tonight and get my things together tonight so there isn't a mad rush in the morning.
What an exciting week! I'm actually ready for summer to wind down, and for our family to get back on a schedule. Enjoy the last moments of summer.
- M. & co.
This morning (a mere 4 1/2 hours after going to bed), I got up and went with my parents to Mt. Gretna's annual Art Show. It was my mom's birthday present from me and my sister. Mt. Gretna, for those who are unaware, is a lake community tucked back in the woods of a Chautauqua resort. The people who live there have these amazing little cottages and homes that are full of character. My mom always says she wants to live there, and I couldn't disagree with her. The Art Show (this was its 38th year) is a juried arts and craft fair with music, food, and nature all around. This isn't a local craft fair; the vendors have to submit pieces and are chosen to have booths. A more traditional arts and craft fair is across the street. We had a lovely day shopping, eating ice cream, and trying not to be stung by bees who wanted our ice cream. If you have never been, it's amazing. I'll try to give a heads up on here when the 2013 show is.
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| My t-shirt has a different design, but I couldn't find it online. |
Now, I'm at home, Elliott's in bed, and I'm putting the final touches on my office before I pack my school bag. Most things are put away, but there are always the odds and ends, and I want to be able to sit at my desk tomorrow evening and get my work done. I'll pick out an outfit tonight and get my things together tonight so there isn't a mad rush in the morning.
What an exciting week! I'm actually ready for summer to wind down, and for our family to get back on a schedule. Enjoy the last moments of summer.
- M. & co.
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
Crafty Lady Day.
Have I been busy with crafts or what?! I wanted to get as many in-progress projects completed as possible before school starts. The best stress reliever for me is to start projects, not finish them, so if I have a clean slate, I can start projects when I need a break.
I'm not even just talking about crochet, but other crafty / DIY projects as well. Here's what I have been working on:
As you can see, my hooks have been busy. Overall, I'm just trying to get my house in order and my brain prepared for the new school year.
Most of our summer has looked like this:
We have a full weekend ahead of us, and school starts NEXT WEEK. It's an orientation week, but I have to be at school every day all day, which is nothing like my schedule come the 27th. It will probably throw Elliott off, but we'll get him back on track soon.
I'm not even just talking about crochet, but other crafty / DIY projects as well. Here's what I have been working on:
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| Commissioned booties, modified for a summer baby. |
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| Hat for Jason to match the scarf I made him last fall. |
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| Booties for the Etsy store! |
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| In progress: Cupcake potholder for me! |
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| Long term project: Hunger Games afghan. This is the District 8 square. |
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| Office organizer! Tutorial to come. |
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| Owl hat for my cousin's baby shower. |
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| "Whatever" cotton cloth for my cousin's baby shower. |
Most of our summer has looked like this:
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| Look at this little guy! |
- M. & co.
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
At 100.
This is our 100th post! Considering that I'm not the most consistant blogger, I'm surprised that 100 is already here.
We've been engaged, got a kitten, married, moved, got pregnant, moved, had a baby, got into grad school, moved, and moved. We've changed jobs, changed careers, and been blessed.
In this next 100, I'm hoping to have more "regular" series so I can plan blogs to post during the busy times of the semester. We'll talk fall cleaning, Halloween, back-to-school, Christmas, crafts and DIY, 40 Days 40 Bags, and Easter. Jason has been taking a hiatus from his blog, but has a number of entries in process, so I'll be sure to link up to those.
What would you like to see?
Thanks for sticking with us to 100. Here's to 100 more!
- M. and co.
We've been engaged, got a kitten, married, moved, got pregnant, moved, had a baby, got into grad school, moved, and moved. We've changed jobs, changed careers, and been blessed.
In this next 100, I'm hoping to have more "regular" series so I can plan blogs to post during the busy times of the semester. We'll talk fall cleaning, Halloween, back-to-school, Christmas, crafts and DIY, 40 Days 40 Bags, and Easter. Jason has been taking a hiatus from his blog, but has a number of entries in process, so I'll be sure to link up to those.
What would you like to see?
Thanks for sticking with us to 100. Here's to 100 more!
- M. and co.
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Lazy Summer Days.
As anyone knows, the novelty of summer wears off. For me, this usually happens around the end of July. Perhaps earlier than most, but I love structure and schedule and having meaningful things to do. Elliott also likes schedule (he put himself on one that I love), so it will be nice to go back to school and have some structure for everyone.
In order to combat the boredom, we've tried to keep busy. We have lunch at Nana's once a week, dinner with my family at least once a week, and I go to dance twice a week. I originally intended to go only for Level 5 (the top level that I ended with), but I went to a lower level the first week to warm up and I decided the warm-up was a good thing every week. I haven't danced since about 4 months before E was born, so I have to treat myself differently after class. I have to ice my shins and ankles, drink a lot more water, and usually take a Tylenol. I also have to stretch after class and the next morning. The school doesn't have sprung floors, so I'm not surprised my legs and ankles are achy. I'm having a ton of fun though. I love learning choreography, and since I go different days, I learn from a couple different people. Last night, we did a lyrical combo and a hip-hop combo. I look silly doing hip-hop. I wish we would do a tap combo, but we just do a lot of across the floor.
Elliott and I also take little adventures throughout the week. We went shopping yesterday, and we're visiting my grandparents with my sister today. Between that and dance, it will be a long day.
My sister is leaving for NC on Sunday, and we will be sad to see her go. I'm close with my sister, but Elliott just adores his Aunt Sarah. Hopefully we can visit her this fall.
Yesterday, Elliott gave me a 2 1/2 hour block in the afternoon, and it was glorious! I vacuumed, showered, blow-dried my hair, dusted the first floor, cleaned the kitchen, and read 50 pages of "Bringing Up Bebe," which I finished last night. In short, it was an incredible look at how another culture parents its children. I'm definitely going to adopt some of those methods and tips (especially teaching my child autonomy, respect, and patience).
- M.
In order to combat the boredom, we've tried to keep busy. We have lunch at Nana's once a week, dinner with my family at least once a week, and I go to dance twice a week. I originally intended to go only for Level 5 (the top level that I ended with), but I went to a lower level the first week to warm up and I decided the warm-up was a good thing every week. I haven't danced since about 4 months before E was born, so I have to treat myself differently after class. I have to ice my shins and ankles, drink a lot more water, and usually take a Tylenol. I also have to stretch after class and the next morning. The school doesn't have sprung floors, so I'm not surprised my legs and ankles are achy. I'm having a ton of fun though. I love learning choreography, and since I go different days, I learn from a couple different people. Last night, we did a lyrical combo and a hip-hop combo. I look silly doing hip-hop. I wish we would do a tap combo, but we just do a lot of across the floor.
Elliott and I also take little adventures throughout the week. We went shopping yesterday, and we're visiting my grandparents with my sister today. Between that and dance, it will be a long day.
My sister is leaving for NC on Sunday, and we will be sad to see her go. I'm close with my sister, but Elliott just adores his Aunt Sarah. Hopefully we can visit her this fall.
Yesterday, Elliott gave me a 2 1/2 hour block in the afternoon, and it was glorious! I vacuumed, showered, blow-dried my hair, dusted the first floor, cleaned the kitchen, and read 50 pages of "Bringing Up Bebe," which I finished last night. In short, it was an incredible look at how another culture parents its children. I'm definitely going to adopt some of those methods and tips (especially teaching my child autonomy, respect, and patience).
- M.
Monday, July 16, 2012
Summer Fun
In addition to moving, we have been doing a lot of fun stuff this summer!
Before we left Philadelphia, we made sure we ate at some of our favorite places:
That was just the week before we left! I think the only place we didn't get to was From the Boot in Lafayette Hill, but my cousin lives close, so we can get our visit in then.
My first outside-baby Mothers Day was really special. Jason made me breakfast, and he gave me new running sneakers and a nice dinner out (which we haven't had a chance to take yet!). Elliott (read: Jason) made me a Shutterfly book. We spent the weekend with my family at Aunt Chris' and at Longwood Gardens, which I had never been to before. So beautiful, and so big!
The next few weeks were consumed with moving and other family issues. We started June with a visit to Mt. St. Mary's University, which is my dad's alma mater. It was alumni weekend, and mom and dad's friends' band was playing on campus. It is a beautiful campus, and it also houses the Our Lady of Lourdes / Mother Seton shrine. My parents got married there, and they have the most beautiful wedding photos as a result.
Father's day was pretty quiet. That's what the dads wanted. We had a joint bar-be-que with both families and played wash-shoes, which is a combo of washers, horseshoes, and bean-bag toss. I got Jason a cast-iron skillet. :)
The next weekend, my parents, sister, and I took my aunt and cousin from California to New York City and showed them the sights. We tried to see the Ground Zero memorial, but the tickets were sold out (they're free, but they require advance reservations to keep the crowds at bay). It was an interesting trip (thanks to some noisy neighbors at the hotel), but we still had a lot of fun together.
Our summer has been quite busy, and it's only half done! We have baby showers, arts fests, birthdays, and lots of pool time planned before orientation starts for grad school at the end of August. I'm also hoping we can take a weekend beach trip to OCNJ after the season is over, maybe in mid to late September.
Before we left Philadelphia, we made sure we ate at some of our favorite places:
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| Tampopo, 44th Street, West Philadelphia |
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| El Limon, Fayette Street, Conshohocken |
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| Frankford Hall, Frankford Street, Northern Liberties |
My first outside-baby Mothers Day was really special. Jason made me breakfast, and he gave me new running sneakers and a nice dinner out (which we haven't had a chance to take yet!). Elliott (read: Jason) made me a Shutterfly book. We spent the weekend with my family at Aunt Chris' and at Longwood Gardens, which I had never been to before. So beautiful, and so big!
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| My special mothers day pancakes. |
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| Elliott and his grandparents. |
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| Beautiful campus. That's the dorm my dad lived in! |
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| Elliott and Mom in front of the chapel. |
The next weekend, my parents, sister, and I took my aunt and cousin from California to New York City and showed them the sights. We tried to see the Ground Zero memorial, but the tickets were sold out (they're free, but they require advance reservations to keep the crowds at bay). It was an interesting trip (thanks to some noisy neighbors at the hotel), but we still had a lot of fun together.
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| Flags at the World Trade Center site. |
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| Salad at Carmines, an amazing Italian restaurant in Midtown. |
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| Lights at the Marquis Marriott, where we beat the heat with a beer. |
What fun things have you been up to this summer?
- M.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
The Little Man is One!
Our Elliott Zachary is one today!
We love you Little Man!
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| Newborn Elliott. |
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| One year old Elliott at his party. |
We love you Little Man!
More updates soon! We've been so busy moving and planning and living life.
- M & J.
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Upheaval.
Boy, oh, boy have the Yingers had changes in their lives this last month since I posted. Yeesh.
First, we moved. Apparently, moving is one of the most stressful life events, and we've done it almost every year for the last five years. And this move isn't even permanent! We're living with Jason's parents until we have a new place to live, which should be in the next month or so. We can actually start looking because...
Jason got a new job! It even uses his degree, which anyone in the liberal arts can tell you is a big deal. He'll be working for a company that makes and sells collectible items (coins and the like), and he'll be writing copy and doing research for them. We are beyond thrilled, and it will hopefully make our lives easier.
Elliott is taking some time to adapt to this newest change in his life. This is the biggest change probably since he moved into his own room back in September, so we'll just help him through it. He doesn't nap well, and is having some other minor issues. Hopefully once Jason starts his new job and our schedule is less hectic (read: Elliott gets more Mama and Daddy time), he'll feel less insecure.
Most of our changes have been positive, but one has definitely caused negative stress. Jason's grandma passed away almost two weeks ago, and I know its been stressful on everyone, especially Jason's dad. My parents, along with friends and neighbors, have been so helpful by cooking food or taking Elliott so we didn't have to cancel classes and such. The amazing people we know and love in Central PA have come through yet again for us.
We've already had some nice evenings with friends here, including a night on the porch with J's friends and a game / homemade goodies night with my PSU buds and their families (there were 5 kids there!). We know there are nights at the pool, more beers, and more games to be had this summer and we can't wait.
I will post pictures soon of EVERYTHING. I haven't posted monthly photos of Elliott in forever, and we've had other adventures as well.
- M. & J.
First, we moved. Apparently, moving is one of the most stressful life events, and we've done it almost every year for the last five years. And this move isn't even permanent! We're living with Jason's parents until we have a new place to live, which should be in the next month or so. We can actually start looking because...
Jason got a new job! It even uses his degree, which anyone in the liberal arts can tell you is a big deal. He'll be working for a company that makes and sells collectible items (coins and the like), and he'll be writing copy and doing research for them. We are beyond thrilled, and it will hopefully make our lives easier.
Elliott is taking some time to adapt to this newest change in his life. This is the biggest change probably since he moved into his own room back in September, so we'll just help him through it. He doesn't nap well, and is having some other minor issues. Hopefully once Jason starts his new job and our schedule is less hectic (read: Elliott gets more Mama and Daddy time), he'll feel less insecure.
Most of our changes have been positive, but one has definitely caused negative stress. Jason's grandma passed away almost two weeks ago, and I know its been stressful on everyone, especially Jason's dad. My parents, along with friends and neighbors, have been so helpful by cooking food or taking Elliott so we didn't have to cancel classes and such. The amazing people we know and love in Central PA have come through yet again for us.
We've already had some nice evenings with friends here, including a night on the porch with J's friends and a game / homemade goodies night with my PSU buds and their families (there were 5 kids there!). We know there are nights at the pool, more beers, and more games to be had this summer and we can't wait.
I will post pictures soon of EVERYTHING. I haven't posted monthly photos of Elliott in forever, and we've had other adventures as well.
- M. & J.
Monday, April 9, 2012
Independence or: Riding with Boys on Trains.
When you're a mom with a supportive, helpful husband, it's easy to become used to always having that extra pair of hands in unusual situations. Going shopping? It's easy with two people! Need to run to Ikea? No problem with Daddy along! I'm sure this changes as you add more kids to the mix, but for now, this is my reality.
My sister comes home this weekend for her spring break and Easter vacation, and I wanted to surprise her at the airport with my parents and Elliott, of course. However, Jason has to work, so we'll be using Amtrak to get to Harrisburg. I've taken this train probably one hundred times, since I used it in undergrad and grad school. However, I've never done it with an infant, stroller, car seat, and baggage in tow. I booked my ticket, and I called Amtrak to ensure I can actually carry-on all the things I need to. When I did, the Amtrak rep also added a note to my tickets that I would need assistance, so Elliott and I will get to board early and have someone to help me get him and his things on and off the train. Jason helped me get into the station and such at Philly, and my dad would be on the other end to do the same thing, but there are certain places non-ticket holders can't go. I'm so glad I called ahead.
Here's my plan:
- I have a travel system, so the car seat and Elliott can ride right in the stroller. I'll use a backpack as my bag (Jason will be down on Friday, so I just need the necessities), and Elliott's diaper bag. The only thing I'll actually need to carry is the car seat base (so we can ride in the car once we get to Harrisburg).
- I will pack as light as possible for myself. Normally I'd need things to keep me occupied on the train, but I think I'll have enough to pay attention to. If I have room / weight to spare, I may bring a book or some crochet for the car ride to Baltimore. Maybe.
- I also packed as light as possible for Elliott, which is a whole different definition of "light." I'll suck it up and wash bottles as needed so I can bring fewer along. Bottles probably take up the most space in a diaper bag.
- I booked the train so it will be after Elliott's first nap, but at a time when a nap is possible. If he doesn't nap on the train, he'll sleep on the way to Grandma and Grandpa's, or on the ride to Baltimore. He has some guaranteed nap times, basically. He sleeps really well in the car, and a lot of the sources I've read say similar kids sleep well on trains. I know I do. Perhaps he'll take a cat nap! (Edit: Nope. No train napping. Too many stops for him to get settled.)
- I also brought my wrap, just in case I needed to part with the car seat and stroller on the train itself. He also enjoys being wrapped, so if he gets fussy, it will help. I didn't need to use it this time, but it's a great option to have.
So, let's review and add some tips:
1. Call ahead and let the train line know you'll need assistance. They were very helpful and it made transitions on and off the train very smooth. At Harrisburg, they even let my dad come down to the train to help me.
2. Book in advance, if possible. You don't want to schlep down to the station with all this gear in tow to find that the train is too crowded.
3. Now is a good time to learn about minimalism in your own packing. It really helped me figure out what I REALLY use on a trip and what I don't. It was more beneficial to pack extra books for Elliott than to pack an extra set of clothes for me.
4. Don't forget the car seat base! You'll need that once you get to your destination. If you travel with any frequency, a car seat bag might help with this awkward item.
I hope this helps. What do you do to make traveling with your little ones easier?
- M.
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| 30th Street Station, Philadelphia |
My sister comes home this weekend for her spring break and Easter vacation, and I wanted to surprise her at the airport with my parents and Elliott, of course. However, Jason has to work, so we'll be using Amtrak to get to Harrisburg. I've taken this train probably one hundred times, since I used it in undergrad and grad school. However, I've never done it with an infant, stroller, car seat, and baggage in tow. I booked my ticket, and I called Amtrak to ensure I can actually carry-on all the things I need to. When I did, the Amtrak rep also added a note to my tickets that I would need assistance, so Elliott and I will get to board early and have someone to help me get him and his things on and off the train. Jason helped me get into the station and such at Philly, and my dad would be on the other end to do the same thing, but there are certain places non-ticket holders can't go. I'm so glad I called ahead.
Here's my plan:
- I have a travel system, so the car seat and Elliott can ride right in the stroller. I'll use a backpack as my bag (Jason will be down on Friday, so I just need the necessities), and Elliott's diaper bag. The only thing I'll actually need to carry is the car seat base (so we can ride in the car once we get to Harrisburg).
- I will pack as light as possible for myself. Normally I'd need things to keep me occupied on the train, but I think I'll have enough to pay attention to. If I have room / weight to spare, I may bring a book or some crochet for the car ride to Baltimore. Maybe.
- I also packed as light as possible for Elliott, which is a whole different definition of "light." I'll suck it up and wash bottles as needed so I can bring fewer along. Bottles probably take up the most space in a diaper bag.
- I booked the train so it will be after Elliott's first nap, but at a time when a nap is possible. If he doesn't nap on the train, he'll sleep on the way to Grandma and Grandpa's, or on the ride to Baltimore. He has some guaranteed nap times, basically. He sleeps really well in the car, and a lot of the sources I've read say similar kids sleep well on trains. I know I do. Perhaps he'll take a cat nap! (Edit: Nope. No train napping. Too many stops for him to get settled.)
- I also brought my wrap, just in case I needed to part with the car seat and stroller on the train itself. He also enjoys being wrapped, so if he gets fussy, it will help. I didn't need to use it this time, but it's a great option to have.
So, let's review and add some tips:
1. Call ahead and let the train line know you'll need assistance. They were very helpful and it made transitions on and off the train very smooth. At Harrisburg, they even let my dad come down to the train to help me.
2. Book in advance, if possible. You don't want to schlep down to the station with all this gear in tow to find that the train is too crowded.
3. Now is a good time to learn about minimalism in your own packing. It really helped me figure out what I REALLY use on a trip and what I don't. It was more beneficial to pack extra books for Elliott than to pack an extra set of clothes for me.
4. Don't forget the car seat base! You'll need that once you get to your destination. If you travel with any frequency, a car seat bag might help with this awkward item.
I hope this helps. What do you do to make traveling with your little ones easier?
- M.
Spring is here!
I never feel like it is spring until Easter. There's something about the decorations, the cute dresses, and Easter traditions that really bring in the season. I only like winter for Christmas and snow...and we didn't get much of the white stuff this year. Boo.
My 40 Days, 40 Bags challenge is over. While I did not complete it, I got the biggest problem areas of my apartment under control. Between the post-moving purge from last May and my Lenten effort, I definitely have removed 40 bags from my house. We got rid of at least 50 books, which doesn't look like a lot, and my closet is a little trimmer. I'm happy with the progress I made, and I'm definitely going to do it again next year.
I had also planned on opening an Etsy shop today, but I want to have a little more inventory before I do that. That being said, Peachy Crochet will open in the next week. More updates once that happens.
Easter was so much fun, and I think Elliott really liked getting some new toys and hanging out with his 2nd cousins. Last year in our family, three of us had babies, so they will grow up very close in age. The few months between each one will seem less and less significant every year.
This was just a quick update. The end of the semester is almost here, so my updates will probably be less frequent, since I'll have a ton of grading to do. Eee.
- M. & J.
My 40 Days, 40 Bags challenge is over. While I did not complete it, I got the biggest problem areas of my apartment under control. Between the post-moving purge from last May and my Lenten effort, I definitely have removed 40 bags from my house. We got rid of at least 50 books, which doesn't look like a lot, and my closet is a little trimmer. I'm happy with the progress I made, and I'm definitely going to do it again next year.
I had also planned on opening an Etsy shop today, but I want to have a little more inventory before I do that. That being said, Peachy Crochet will open in the next week. More updates once that happens.
Easter was so much fun, and I think Elliott really liked getting some new toys and hanging out with his 2nd cousins. Last year in our family, three of us had babies, so they will grow up very close in age. The few months between each one will seem less and less significant every year.
This was just a quick update. The end of the semester is almost here, so my updates will probably be less frequent, since I'll have a ton of grading to do. Eee.
- M. & J.
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Frazzled.
Few women want to describe themselves this way, but this is the best word in the English language to illustrate the way I feel. I'm sure German has a word for my real feelings; my ancestors have a word for everything. It has been a crazy week paired with outside annoyances. I feel like I might accidentally sleep through Easter break because I am so exhausted.
So, what have I been up to? Plenty.
My 40 Days, 40 Bags challenge has taken a back seat this week, but I've continued to make progress. During last week's summer preview, I got out my summer clothing and sorted through it. Most still fits me, but a few items went into the charity bag. I also got rid of 4 pairs of shoes so far. I'm sure more will get the axe, but 4 are already on their way out of my home. Jason and I also finally found all of our boxes of books and evaluated which ones needed to go. We have two boxes and a bag of books to either donate or sell. When we pack to move, I have to stow my American Studies books separately. That way, if we're still living with a parent or have things in storage come August (and come funding), I can find the books I need quickly.
I'm still anxiously awaiting notice from Penn State about funding for the fall. That alone is adding exponentially to my stress levels.
This weekend, I am attending a conference. I knew this would be stressful, but outside factors have increased that. A lack of communication and no shortage of disorganization has caused even the most seasoned veteran among us to feel confused about what is expected. Everyone in our office is stressed, and on top of that, I am trying to write a paper, edit said paper, and create an effective presentation of my material. Normally, I would just present my research, but they now want everyone to submit a finished work. I edit my writing within an inch of its life, so I need every possible day. This, along with the fact that my moderator hasn't communicated with me in any way has just added to my anxiety. It's overnight too, and I'm bummed about leaving E for the weekend.
Otherwise, I've seen The Hunger Games, which I loved; I went out for a girls' night; and I've been working on a lot of crochet projects when I can to calm my nerves. I'm designing my first original pattern and building an afghan around it.
Sorry for the absence. I'll post more once this weekend is over.
- M.
So, what have I been up to? Plenty.
My 40 Days, 40 Bags challenge has taken a back seat this week, but I've continued to make progress. During last week's summer preview, I got out my summer clothing and sorted through it. Most still fits me, but a few items went into the charity bag. I also got rid of 4 pairs of shoes so far. I'm sure more will get the axe, but 4 are already on their way out of my home. Jason and I also finally found all of our boxes of books and evaluated which ones needed to go. We have two boxes and a bag of books to either donate or sell. When we pack to move, I have to stow my American Studies books separately. That way, if we're still living with a parent or have things in storage come August (and come funding), I can find the books I need quickly.
I'm still anxiously awaiting notice from Penn State about funding for the fall. That alone is adding exponentially to my stress levels.
This weekend, I am attending a conference. I knew this would be stressful, but outside factors have increased that. A lack of communication and no shortage of disorganization has caused even the most seasoned veteran among us to feel confused about what is expected. Everyone in our office is stressed, and on top of that, I am trying to write a paper, edit said paper, and create an effective presentation of my material. Normally, I would just present my research, but they now want everyone to submit a finished work. I edit my writing within an inch of its life, so I need every possible day. This, along with the fact that my moderator hasn't communicated with me in any way has just added to my anxiety. It's overnight too, and I'm bummed about leaving E for the weekend.
Otherwise, I've seen The Hunger Games, which I loved; I went out for a girls' night; and I've been working on a lot of crochet projects when I can to calm my nerves. I'm designing my first original pattern and building an afghan around it.
Sorry for the absence. I'll post more once this weekend is over.
- M.
Friday, March 2, 2012
Separation Anxiety
My sweet bunny is going through a very strange time right now. We're dealing with some pretty insane separation anxiety, mainly during his afternoon naps.
Before, he would wake up around 9, take a nap at 10 or 11, get up again around 11 or noon, take another nap around 2 or 3 (this is the solid, 2 hour one I can depend on), and a small cat nap around 8, especially if his earlier nap was abnormally short or early. Bed around 10:30. We're on a late schedule as a family anyway, so this works for us (and our pediatrician).
Now, he takes his morning nap (because Daddy is almost always the one who puts him down for that one) and no more. I got him to sleep for a total of 45 non-consecutive minutes in each of the last two days. He does not like it if I put him down to sleep. When Jason and I are both home, Jason can get him to sleep, but I can't. If Jason tries to do anything with him when I'm home, Elliott is either distracted by me or gets upset if he watches me leave the room.
It wouldn't be too bad if I wasn't in the throws of midterm week. I have A LOT of grading to do with grades due on the 12th. If I don't get the time do complete my work, I get very stressed. Forget the other projects. I use the little time I have now to do quick clean-ups and make food, and most of that is while he's in his high chair.
Does anyone have advice for me? Re-reading the above makes it sound like I'm the one suffering, but it's only because Elliott is so distraught. Help?
- J & M.
Before, he would wake up around 9, take a nap at 10 or 11, get up again around 11 or noon, take another nap around 2 or 3 (this is the solid, 2 hour one I can depend on), and a small cat nap around 8, especially if his earlier nap was abnormally short or early. Bed around 10:30. We're on a late schedule as a family anyway, so this works for us (and our pediatrician).
Now, he takes his morning nap (because Daddy is almost always the one who puts him down for that one) and no more. I got him to sleep for a total of 45 non-consecutive minutes in each of the last two days. He does not like it if I put him down to sleep. When Jason and I are both home, Jason can get him to sleep, but I can't. If Jason tries to do anything with him when I'm home, Elliott is either distracted by me or gets upset if he watches me leave the room.
It wouldn't be too bad if I wasn't in the throws of midterm week. I have A LOT of grading to do with grades due on the 12th. If I don't get the time do complete my work, I get very stressed. Forget the other projects. I use the little time I have now to do quick clean-ups and make food, and most of that is while he's in his high chair.
Does anyone have advice for me? Re-reading the above makes it sound like I'm the one suffering, but it's only because Elliott is so distraught. Help?
- J & M.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
7 Months!
I can't believe I forgot to put up a 7-month post about Elliott!
He had his 6 month appointment on the 16th (our pediatrician is incredibly busy, and our appointments keep getting further and further apart), and he is doing really well.
Stats:
- Weight: 17 pounds, 6 ounces (50%) We thought he was sooo much bigger!
- Length: 26 1/4" (15%)
- Head circumference: (85%)
He had the last series of a couple of vaccinations, which I'm thrilled about. I think the shots are more difficult for the parents at this point than the kids. He was a total champ! He cried for a minute after the vaccine that apparently burns a little, but by the time we had him back in his jacket and such, he was all smiles. Mama and Daddy "rewarded" themselves with Wendy's.
Here are some 7 month pictures!
- J & M.
He had his 6 month appointment on the 16th (our pediatrician is incredibly busy, and our appointments keep getting further and further apart), and he is doing really well.
Stats:
- Weight: 17 pounds, 6 ounces (50%) We thought he was sooo much bigger!
- Length: 26 1/4" (15%)
- Head circumference: (85%)
He had the last series of a couple of vaccinations, which I'm thrilled about. I think the shots are more difficult for the parents at this point than the kids. He was a total champ! He cried for a minute after the vaccine that apparently burns a little, but by the time we had him back in his jacket and such, he was all smiles. Mama and Daddy "rewarded" themselves with Wendy's.
Here are some 7 month pictures!
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| Dinosaurs! |
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| Our happy boy! |
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| Snoopy, who was a Christmas gift from Aunt Sarah. It came with a pre-recorded storybook of "A Charlie Brown Christmas." |
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